Being absolutely excoriated and decimated by whatever is coming in through the walls/ new bed set up.

 "Don’t engage in a discussion about your morals, your character or YOU. You’re defending your rights not your morals. You’re arguing for women not for yourself. Don’t let it get personal, the second you reply in defence of yourself eg “I’m not phobic” all you do is show a weakness that you care what people think of you and they will exploit that to the point where you find that you’re arguing that you’re not a transphobe rather than arguing that women deserve to be recognised as a real class of people separate from men." Amanda Ciudat