" The softest parts of a woman only come out when it’s safe to.
So many men say they want a soft woman, a feminine woman, a gentle woman. But softness isn’t a trait, it’s a response. You don’t get it by demanding it. You get it by earning it. You create it when you give her a world she doesn’t have to harden herself against. When her nervous system can exhale. When she’s not on alert. When she doesn’t have to carry it all, watch her tone, justify her feelings, or walk on eggshells so she doesn’t set you off. Masculine presence, the kind that is steady, protective, and emotionally available, is what makes a woman unfold. Not control. Not punishment. Not withdrawal. She has to feel safe enough to be soft." Echo
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