"The feminine cannot, will not surrender
To the wounded masculine...
Belittles
Dishonours
Controls
Manipulates
Abuses
Or attacks her
Her own inner masculine will not allow it
He will rise fiercely to the forefront
To stand guard
To do the job himself
The feminine can and will only surrender
To the divine masculine...
A man who is devoted to her
Elevates
Honours
Cherishes
Supports
And protects her
A man with boundaries
Presence
Direction
Integrity
Accountability
And humility
In this space
She will feel him penetrating her very essence...
Her body
Her mind
Her heart
Her soul
And she will feel safe...
Safe enough to surrender
This is the natural law
This is the dance of healed polarities
This is surrender...
To Love"
Written by Gemma Star
II
My next relationship? Oh, we’re having a weekly sit-down, period. Once a week, no phones, no distractions—just me and you, face-to-face, heart-to-heart. We’re gonna talk about US. How we’ve been feeling, what’s going good, what needs work, what we both need more of, and what we should stop doing. Because too many relationships fail from lack of communication, and I’m not letting that happen again.
We’re going to normalize checking in—emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and even physically. We’re going to ask each other, “How can I love you better this week?” “What did I do that made you feel unheard?” “What can we work on as a team?” Because love isn’t just about the good times—it’s about growth, understanding, accountability, and effort.
I want us to be intentional. I want us to build something that’s unshakable. And you’d be surprised what just one real conversation a week can do for a relationship. It’s not about being perfect—it’s about being present. Together. For real.
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